Elaine turned 4 two weeks ago. We have been sick almost this entire time, and I haven’t even had a moment to think about sorting through her birthday pictures. Her birthday is the 5th, but Grandma & Grampa Fezzie came down on the 2nd to celebrate with us. This is all very complicated for a four year old to understand, especially when there are presents and party decorations, but its not “really” your birthday yet. So Elaine expressed it as her “pretend” birthday when her grandparents were here, and her “real” birthday on the actual day. It was cute. And then, on November 6th, she woke up and asked me if she was still four. Yes. For a whole year, dear. I decorated the night before her “pretend” birthday with some tissue pom-poms and the birthday banner. We started off the day at Elaine’s friend Havilah’s Fall Fun Fest while waiting for Grandma & Grampa to arrive Since we didn’t have a party, I did get som...